So, I was thinking today what my ideal guy would be like and I thought of the perfect man for me:
David beckhams body, jared's ( from kings of Leon) head, and caleb's(once again KOL) voice. Awwwwwwww yes! Perfect!
Who would be your perfect combo?

Ok, so I had a lot of friends excited to share stories so I think I will start. About 2 years ago I met a guy, let's call him "Ben", online. He was very good looking, sucessful, drove a nice car, seemed to be a good dad, etc.... We went out on 2 dates and he was trying to get me to commit to him. It made me feel weird because it happened so fast and he was so pushy about it. Needless to say, I wouldn't do it. A week later after a little myspace stalking I found out he was engaged to another woman. I emailed her right away and she wrote me back saying I wasn't the only girl that had contacted her about the same things with him. I never heard from him again but did later find out through a lady in my parents neighborhood, who's sister had dated him and he got her pregnant and never talked to her again,that he was still married, engaged to this girl, and trying to take advantage of women all over town! Wow!!!

I have recently been thinking and wondering what it is about a woman that makes a man want to commit to her. I'm a good mom, good cook, funny, pretty easy going gal but yet every man(boy) I've dated in the last while commits to the girl after me. What is it that she has that I don't ? Is it because I'm not rail thin? Is it the short hair? Is it that I have a child? Please someone help me to understand this gender that we are supposed to want to attract and be with!!!!!